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Happens about 20mins after I wake up.

Image transcription:Random npc spongebob fish character looking miserable holding a cup during a sunset and another overlayed image of the same guy on the left with the same look.

It is captioned with:

When you already checked your usual 5 apps and don't know what else to do with your day:

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[–] [email protected] 85 points 2 months ago (4 children)
  1. Lemmy
  2. Mastodon
  3. Lemmy again
  4. Youtube
  5. Believe it or not, Lemmy
[–] [email protected] 23 points 2 months ago (1 children)
  1. Lemmy - sort by top 12 hours
  2. Google News
  3. Lemmy - sort by top 6 hours
  4. YouTube
  5. If desperate, Lemmy sort by Hot
[–] [email protected] 8 points 2 months ago

Can I suggest sorting by new for your favorite communities? There are a lot of downvoters that have gamed the system.

[–] [email protected] 14 points 2 months ago (2 children)
  1. Lemmy
  2. Hacker News
  3. BBC
  4. The Register
  5. The Verge
[–] [email protected] 7 points 2 months ago

404media maybe?

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 months ago

I’m in this comment And I’m fine with it.

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[–] [email protected] 35 points 2 months ago (12 children)

I think this is a good opportunity to collectively discuss what is causing us to lead this lifestyle.

[–] [email protected] 15 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (5 children)

I had to move to a country with a more introverted culture than the one I grew up in (not the US), and I've struggled finding friends to spend my free time with so far, so I spend it on apps :-( They really are just a last resort and I'd much rather spend my time with actual people like in the olden days :-/

[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 months ago (1 children)

sign up for a class/activity, wear a conversation piece.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Smart move the latter, ~didn't think it.

About the former, I recently realized in practice that it's important to pick up activities etc. that you like and that attract people you can bond with. For example I like weightlefting at gym, but I realized it attracts so many people with repulsive ideologies, while I tried dancing and mobility classes the same gym offers and the environment was much much better, I found many good people there. (I still do weightlifting though and I found some good people there too.)

Plus, voicing your opinions helps a lot to filter people (I'm struggling a lot with this though).

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 2 months ago (1 children)

When I was a kid, I used to play video games while jumping around. I'd stand in front of the TV, bounce around, play Mario, run in circles. My parents didn't care.

At some point, society said that was weird, and I had a gaming chair?

Watching myself balloon (and already using a standing desk for work) went back to standing while playing video games. I enjoy it!

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Everything else requires effort.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Yes. I think what makes these apps appealing is that 1) they can be used unplanned and your time in them doesnt have to be structured, and 2) they can fill up an arbitrarily long or short amount of time.

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 months ago

Chronic pain gang, rise up 💪 (or remain seated)

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 months ago

I think a lot of it is a result of our capitalistic society squeezing as much as it can from us for profit

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 months ago

I'm just checking my social media apps for any new messages and maybe droify for updates. After checking them in the morning I kinda think to myself that now job is done and any more time I spend of my morning on them is kinda wasted. Checking social media from time to time and speaking with your friends seems kinda healthy, but doomscrolling is kind of a waste after a point (happens if I'm too bored to start my day).

The thing is, after I check all these, I might go in a loop due to boredom (boredom may have many many reasons behind it). When I have tasks to do or I'm in a period that my friends and I are busy, this is more intense. The phone is an easy and portable distraction. All these contribute to an increase of phone usage (currently I'm in one of those situations and phone usage has increased probably by at least 50%).

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[–] [email protected] 17 points 2 months ago

Boredom breeds innovation. It's okay to be bored. In fact, I really wish our society would get "legitimately" bored more often.

[–] [email protected] 16 points 2 months ago (8 children)

So are you people in this meme just on your phone all day looking at stupid phone apps? God, what a waste of life.

Smartphones are just boring little tools guys. Don't make it your life. Be a real nerd, get a PC, and surf the web where there are no limitations set by apps. Play some video games, look at porn sites, do some online shopping or whatever. If you're done with all that, go outside and ride a bike or something.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 2 months ago (2 children)

For me my phone meme time is

  1. 5-10 minutes before I get out of bed in the morning
  2. if I’m bored at work
  3. Poopin
[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 months ago

Good example of why summaries and screenshots are important

Think of the poopers

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Are you actually trying to start a phone vs pc debate? That's funny as hell.

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[–] [email protected] 12 points 2 months ago (2 children)

It’s disgusting how many times I’ll catch myself opening an app I closed less than 2 minutes ago because I was bored.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 months ago

I've closed Lemmy and not ten seconds later open it up again.

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[–] [email protected] 11 points 2 months ago (7 children)

I gave up conventional social media recently, and I do paid surveys instead. I made 225 dollars in four weeks.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Wait, where did you find this job?

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Not a job, paid survey apps. HeyPiggy, Five Surveys, Qmee are the best ones.

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[–] [email protected] 10 points 2 months ago (2 children)

Then its timeto put down the phone/laptop/tablet, get up off your butt and move around. Maybe even do something while youre up

[–] [email protected] 11 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Eww gross but moving around can lead to death I watched a YouTube video on that. I'm not falling for that

[–] [email protected] 10 points 2 months ago

Heres a little known secret: breathing leads to death. So stop it if you want to live forever

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Lol, people here do a lot of assumptions. I typically do like ~9k steps each day, I spent a lot of time outside, go to gym etc. but 1)having hard tasks to do and 2)spending a lot of time alone (alone meaning without interacting face to face with real friends) for various reasons contributes to this.

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[–] [email protected] 10 points 2 months ago

Put down your phone. Close your eyes. Imagine one (1) thing. You're cured.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 2 months ago

So you have five different apps to browse Lemmy?

[–] [email protected] 8 points 2 months ago (1 children)

*Usual five apps

  1. Lemmy
  2. Lemmy
  3. Lemmy
  4. Lemmy
  5. Lemmy
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[–] [email protected] 8 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I remember in the early to mid 2000s when the internet was new and there seemed to be loads of stuff to do.

Was never bored

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 months ago

it is still the same, but we're already conditioned to have everything thrown at us on every single internet interaction, making the thought of searching something new seem like stepping out of our comfort zone

with AIs and what not, this feeling will only worsen

[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 months ago

Time to grab your board (web navigator) and surf (follow hyperlinks) the web (more commonly, the graphical "internet"). Totally rippin the gnar, my gender indeterminate dudes (check out wikipedia). Yeaaaahhh (yes, emphatically)!!!

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 months ago (4 children)

Go for a walk, read a book, watch a movie, play a game it will make you feel so much better. Just remember to change activities every few hours. If you're going to play games for 10h you are probably going to get bored of it way too quickly.

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Rss and Rss and just Rss

[Got this post from there as well)

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I see you are efficient by using only 1 app😆

Nice

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 months ago

You play shattered pixel dungeon for the next 20 hours is what you do.

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