Automatically deleted and cut out of your life, and all I have to do is nothing? Sounds too good to be true.
this post was submitted on 23 Jul 2024
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She says they will do that, but in reality they would harrass you every couple weeks with unasked photos of what you're missing.
I thought a destination wedding was basically an elopement, like you are trying to really cull your guest list. Never felt bad about sending a no to those, always figured that's what they were aiming for.
I know some people that went and got married in Thailand. They're really good friends but I was not paying to go to Thailand just to watch their wedding, and then come home again, it's not worth it. They had a much larger wedding back home for everyone else a couple of weeks later on a weekend in the local area.
When you have a destination wedding that's what everyone expects you to do. Inevitably a lot of people aren't going to come because friend groups all tend to get married around the same time and if everyone wants to have a destination wedding then I'm not going to have any money left.
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You really find out who your friends are when you behave like a douchenozzle
my best friend since high school told me the price I'd have to pay to go to his bachelor party in vegas--I laughed and said have fun dude. he said ok, cya afterwards
the wedding was one of the few good ones I've been to, and i gave a great best man speech
Uh, don't know about your traditions but doesn't the best man usually organise the bachelor party?
lol fuck that
There's a lot to say for a best man that tells you the truth instead of just feeling pressured to go along with your nonsense
Fair enough. Seems odd though to then complain about what the person who did your job for you chose instead.
it was never my job, and i wasn't complaining
My buddy had his ex-gf organize and go with the bachelor party.
Two of the other dudes repeatedly hit on her.
If no one comes then I guess they are technically eloping
Destination elopement sounds pretty great, actually
invite me to the divorce party in two years
Yeah, I really wonder why nobody RSVP'd.
Besides the obvious implications⦠Hawaii would definitely be more expensive than Thailand unless they picked some 5 star hotel in a remote area. Even then it would probably be close. Hawaii is atrociously expensive.
Thailand is dirt cheap once you arrive. Hawaii, not so much.
If you're at the RSVP stage for a destination wedding, surely that would be at least 6-8 months in advance of the date...
Why would you expect people to fill out your wedding registry by then? In my experience, folks only start paying attention in the last month before the event.
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I can't even afford a local-ish vacation, much less an international destination wedding.
I hope David reconsidered!
What you can't possibly know that's what his name is. Except it clearly begins with D has five letters in it, and ends with d
Anyway if you really wanted to find this person you would just Google the quote and you'd come right to it so censoring is pointless.
Yeah it could be Donad, Dered or Dan_d!
Thereβs nothing wrong with eloping or doing it simple. Itβs better than doing it so elaborate that someone gets butt hurt, but hey to each their own..
Most weddings aren't even fun.
OT, but as a non-native English speaker I'm shook that "elope" word exists.
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