this post was submitted on 18 May 2024
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[–] [email protected] 145 points 3 months ago (5 children)
[–] [email protected] 19 points 3 months ago

This feels like the natural choice doesn't it?

[–] [email protected] 19 points 3 months ago

Aight we need to open a ticket on github.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 3 months ago

This is my favourite, it's a little cheesy and fun, but it doesn't have my biggest issue with the Reddit one which is for some reason acting like it's a birthday party.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 3 months ago

It's official

[–] [email protected] 0 points 3 months ago (1 children)

It should be software independent. Not referring to a specific Fediverse app, but general across the Fediverse. I don't think this fits.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 months ago

So the fediversary lol

[–] [email protected] 106 points 3 months ago (2 children)

Honestly I was praying that Lemmy dispensed with that reddit-ism

[–] [email protected] 29 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Aww I think it's kinda cute.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 3 months ago

i fucking hate it.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 3 months ago

I found the whole 'cake day' thing on Reddit a bit immature myself, kind of like a stale remnant from the excitement and exuberance of the internet before it was dominated by a few massive companies.

By the time i left reddit my feelings towards those traditions were like yours. They seemed a bit hollow, over-egged.

Times have changed, Lemmy and its user-base are a reaction to the dominant internet campanies. With that i'd hope we can be more thoughtful about building an online experience thats healthy and sober.

To that point, i think marking an anniversary has a certain importance. I'd hope on Lemmy this kind of thing is approached with a more subtle maturity though.

But at the end of the day, what one person takes away from text, and what another person takes away from the same text can be surprisingly different. So maybe I just read all those cake day messages in the wrong light.

[–] [email protected] 51 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Annual commemorative pastry observance

[–] [email protected] 3 points 3 months ago
[–] [email protected] 32 points 3 months ago (2 children)

according to your profile, it’s still called β€œCake day”

[–] [email protected] 26 points 3 months ago (3 children)

I really hate using that term. It's very Reddit.

[–] [email protected] 24 points 3 months ago

Everything about lemmy is. It is literally a reddit clone.

[–] [email protected] 15 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

Not if we liberate it from them

[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 months ago (1 children)

I also dislike it because reddit used it... They managed to destroy a lot of good things.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 3 months ago

It was their creation to begin with, for free. Stop crying about reddit and move on.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

I've been using a mobile app for so long that I didn't notice that.

[–] [email protected] 25 points 3 months ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 months ago

SoufflΓ©mmy

[–] [email protected] 23 points 3 months ago (3 children)
[–] [email protected] 21 points 3 months ago (1 children)

It doesn't, but I do think we should be happy folks are sticking around. I'm almost at one year!

[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 months ago

I'm here since the exodus, but changed my instance to one from my country when I realized it existed. So this account isn't my real start here

[–] [email protected] 7 points 3 months ago (1 children)

We gotta make everything reddit. What does the narwhal bacon here? I vote opossum and curry. Is that le random enough?

[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (1 children)

is that le random enough? <

Do you always get mad when other people try to have fun?

[–] [email protected] 5 points 3 months ago

I also choose this guy's dead soul

[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 months ago

Jeez man it's just some light hearted fun.

[–] [email protected] 17 points 3 months ago

could not give a f*k about what day i created my account

[–] [email protected] 16 points 3 months ago

Account creation.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 3 months ago

Is it necessary to have this ? does it have any significance ?

[–] [email protected] 6 points 3 months ago
[–] [email protected] 6 points 3 months ago
[–] [email protected] 6 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 3 points 3 months ago
[–] [email protected] 4 points 3 months ago
[–] [email protected] 4 points 3 months ago

Our cake day

[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 months ago

Yep, cake day

[–] [email protected] 1 points 3 months ago

petition to just call it a birthday and let it be confusing

[–] [email protected] 1 points 3 months ago

Lemmuffin day

[–] [email protected] 1 points 3 months ago

Lemmington dap

[–] [email protected] 1 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

Lamington Day

Cause Lemmyington.

This probably works better with a New Zealand accent... which I don't have, but like to imitate when I'm drunk.

"Choice bro, put your jandals in the chilly bin" - me, doing champagne comedy sketches

[–] [email protected] 1 points 3 months ago

I don't even celebrate my birthday, because... I never needed to, so likewise I don't celebrate Cake Day either.

I'd rather just have a few brownie pieces with my coffee in the morning.

But if you insist... um... "Lemmydag"? (The final syllable is pronounced "dach" like in Dutch)

[–] [email protected] 0 points 3 months ago