cheese_greater

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

Unless you're Day Boy

[–] [email protected] 3 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

Whats your favorite tools?

[–] [email protected] 5 points 5 hours ago

And have a calendar app that lets you either or both:

  • enter the appointment in text and it automatically recognizes the date and processes it (natural language entry)
  • has buttons for easy tweaking of the day with standard units like 30 minutes/1 day/1 week/1 month that you can press in combination to easily taptically schedule it
[–] [email protected] 2 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

Save the hard stuff for earlier tho. You have the most energy and patience earlier after you sleep so optimize for that window or energy

[–] [email protected] 2 points 6 hours ago* (last edited 6 hours ago)

I find I easily forgive myself if I immediately recognize the fuckup and have a plan started or in the works to prevent it happening again.

Kind of a "fool me once: shame on this. fool me twice: shame on me" alto its infinitey recursive so I would simply start back at 1

If I learn a lesson from it, its money in the experience bank and I trust myself to make it right and mitigate it as best as is possible

It helps with inverse thinking cuz now you know one of the paths or constituents of failure in whatever the endeavor and you have the opportunity to get closer to success next time

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By that I mean what are some powerful and simple basic applied techniques or behaviors that are really useful you've developed or discovered in your life that makes things work or improve.

Lets keep them simple and powerful 🧙‍♂️

Let people on the phone know that you don't mind if something is taking a bit longer and that you're cool and with them whatever happens. Say something like, its okay I'm not in a rush ☺️

They'll appreciate taking some of the pressure off and showing you are a receptive audience (you're rooting for them) and I've found it to get superior outcomes since I started doing it, even tho I was always generally polite previously

[–] [email protected] 7 points 6 hours ago* (last edited 6 hours ago)

MVP is a good tool I was just mentioning. Picked it up unknowingly from coding, still working on generalizing it to my life but its working and rightly for me

[–] [email protected] 7 points 6 hours ago

Aim to surprise, and you'll never not impress. Unless its a dark surprise.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 6 hours ago* (last edited 6 hours ago)

MVP (Minimum Viable Product) is a good tool of thumb also. What is the simplest end result you can work towards to establish a foundation/working model you can iterate over if necessary later to "perfect"

[–] [email protected] 3 points 6 hours ago

Relates to intuition right?

 

People who make me feel like crap or worse off then when I encountered them consistently are written off and out of my life

Doesn't matter if its family, nobody is entitled to your attention and suffering and it does nobody any real good for you to succumb to the inevitable dysfunction it creates in your life and relationships and also material conditions.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 8 hours ago

Let me know how it goes

[–] [email protected] 14 points 8 hours ago
 

It seems like a sort of idée fixe that means something, just like that twinkly bit that plays in the sad introspective theme.

Sort of like a black starry sky reflecting off an ocean of sadness. I dunno haha, it seems like it signifies something

 

I've cleaned/sanitized and let it dry and everything. The audio seems fine and I'm playing that audio track that dislodges the water with sound.

Anything else I should do? Rice etc?

 

I like the idea of being able to convert any audio track into its equivalent piano version.

Do we have the technology to do this or is it even possible?

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I like pure red light (#FF0000) because its relaxing and lessens visual information overload

Baker-Miller pink is also interesting, was proposed to reduce violence and promote calmness in prison. Also very relaxing

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1: my job

2: my pets

3: apartment

What a ride its been that I am feeling grateful and for once, at some level of genuine okayness

Reach down: whats going at least okay that you are thankful to be aligned with?

 

I find myself often winging it with "themself/themselves" and it seems to be like themselves is always colloquially correct when there are multiple preceding nouns you're referring to...

Otherwise if there's only one antecedent or whatever, its themself

Be gentle haha

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I want to understand it but everything I read about it oscillates impossibly between vulgar metals -> gold and some kind of spiritual transformation metaphysical stuff

What is it and what can be legit gleaned from it in an empirical or useful sense?

Does it have utility outside of use as a metaphor or allegory or whatever?

 

I'm more referring to when a random person experiences a random craving for something they've had before.

Does that generally point to something you've had before that unknowingly satisfied a deficiency and which your body tacitly took note of?

I notice it sometimes, like

Beef = i "need" a burger (I'm a skinny dude, beef is not a common staple for me)

Fruit: i need juice or actual berries in yogurt for a smoothie or parfait

 

I loved a cafe with super comfy couches and chill ambiance (few years). Would love to have a similar haunt someday again but I don't believe I will find it

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