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At what step do you struggle the most?

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[–] [email protected] 21 points 1 month ago

Myself, I'm my own cockblocker 😅

I'd say I have 3 problems:

I have zero game, can't read signals, don't know how to appear interesting, all that stuff
Despite being 32, I still don't know what I want, my sexuality is very fluid, so one day I may be super attracted to a girl, and 3 days later I may not care enough to even text her
I don't put myself out enough, I don't want to use dating apps but I also don't want to visit places where I get in contact with a lot of people because I get anxious